Sometimes I don’t understand to what extent people go to prove themselves or rather make fool out of themselves. I was reading this piece of article on Female First and it really pissed me off.
An Italian showgirl and model is offering her virginity for one million Euros.
Twenty year old Raffella Fico – a contestant on the Italian version of TV show ‘Big Brother’ earlier this year – wants the cash to buy a house and pay for acting lessons.
She said: “I can’t wait to see who’s going to pull out the money to have me.”
The starlet is quite comfortable with the arrangement, adding: “If I don’t like him I’ll just have a glass of wine and forget about it.”
I can’t wait to see who’s going to pull out the money to have me.
Raffella has even drafted in her brother to back her claims up. He says: “She’s never had a boyfriend. I swear on my mother’s grave. She’s a devout Catholic and prays to Padre Pio every night.”
Last week a 22-year-old US student, Natalie Dylan, launched an online auction for her virginity on a Californian radio show.
The most annoying thing that I found about this article were her brother’s comments. What is he trying to prove by saying that she is a true catholic? I am not a catholic and I am not sure what Bible preaches but one thing that I can say is that no matter which religion you are following, none teaches you to do such bizarre things to make your dreams come true. I sometimes sympathise with the sex workers who have to work even when they don’t want to but there can be many reasons behind choosing the job. I could still understand doing something like this had you had a family to support, you were struggling for your ends to meet and you are left with no other option but this. Her statements “If I don’t like him I’ll just have a glass of wine and forget about it. I can’t wait to see who’s going to pull out the money to have me. “ definitely doesn’t give me a feeling that she is going through some crisis. Is she a wannabe, who is trying hard to become popular by doing just anything and everything?
It pisses me off when people try to do things under the veil of religion. I remember a colleague Asma, who was a Muslim and had a compulsion to wear burkha. She was well versed with the preaching of Holy Koran and used to share them with her friends as well, something good that she was doing. But what got on to my nerves was that she was preaching to others but when it came to her own self she decided not to follow any of the teachings. She taught that a woman should not wear lipstick, should keep herself covered with a stole all the time, should not let her hair open etc. When she herself used to step out of the house, she used to wear full makeup, let her hair open and although she used to wear burkha while stepping out of hostel but that burkha used to go off as soon as she covered a few miles from the place. I could never understand why she was trying to do such things or why people like her try to impose things on others when they themselves don’t want to follow such stuff?
I respect people who take their religion seriously and follow it, I am not a religion fanatic but if someone believes in his/her religion, I respect that. I have never been one of those who has criticised any religion or has said things against any body’s religious views or opinions but I hate people who try to hide their black souls behind the veils of their religious views. All I’d say is Grow up! Life is too short to divulge into such stupid things.
Sorry for a dark post today but I think I needed to write this down. Coming to the lighter side, Jay from The Depp Effect gave me this award.

I love her blog except the insects that she loves posting, which gives me good reason to pee in my pants.
She lives in some beautiful part of the world where a lot of greenery still makes your mornings fresh and the twitter of birds still work as a sweet alarm clock. I must not commit this crime by not mentioning that she is a Jhonny Depp Fan. Cheers Jay!
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September 22, 2008 at 10:49 pm
Daddy Papersurfer
As a born again virgin, I offer myself up for any offers over a pound – and, good luck ……… [I think I'll be quite safe - nobody would stump up that sort of cash]
September 22, 2008 at 11:10 pm
Scratch Bags
I am putting in my best efforts to find out the TG’s personal email id. You wait till I get it. *tee hee*
September 23, 2008 at 2:21 am
Jay
Good grief, that woman is insane! Or maybe just empty headed and vain – but it doesn’t sound as if she’s a devout Catholic to me! Rather it sounds as if she’s using religion for her own ends which is not what I think it should be about.
I’m glad you like the award, Scratch! I do love your blog, very much. Sorry about the insects, but fair’s fair – I did put a warning in the ‘About me’ section and usually remember to warn people if there’s an insect coming up! LOL!
September 23, 2008 at 4:06 am
70steen
Each to their own hey…. most certainly that Raffella woman loves her own self importance … do you think she strike lucky? I hope not
September 23, 2008 at 1:02 pm
Scratch Bags
Jay- Same feeling actually.
Insects or no insects, I enjoy your posts. The only problem is that I have to read with a winked eye when there are pictures of insects posted.:D
70s- I was wondering who would spend a million bucks to buy her virginity. Someone as insane I guess! I hope she posts another article with the man soon, I’d more stuff to crib about.;)
September 23, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Scratch Bags
Ummm… for one million Euros, I am sure I can buy hundreds of Rafella Ficos in Delhi who would pretend to be virgins. So I am sure the chick would have to negotiate on the price and then no drink would be able to make her forget the experience.
*huggss for my Pootsie Kums* don’t get mad babes. This world is pretty interesting this way.
Scratcher
September 23, 2008 at 6:01 pm
Scratch Bags
Oh yes! had people not been doing such stuff, I would have got nothing to blog about.;)
Scratchy
September 24, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Jay
Scratch – how about if I just say ‘Scratch – CLICK AWAY FROM THIS PAGE, NOW!!’
ROFL!
September 24, 2008 at 3:28 pm
Scratch Bags
Are you trying to keep me away by writing that or tempting me more.! You don’t know how curious I am and how often I’d like to do things that have serious warnings such as these.
September 24, 2008 at 5:02 pm
b4by
hey there!! nice post. and first of all, OMG!!!!
OMG because i have been so ignorant, and when i read this on your post, i was super shocked! how could they do that nowadays? sigh.
OMG as well, as i am still shocked!
hmm… hard day ahead!
September 24, 2008 at 10:20 pm
Scratch Bags
It is a weird whacky world you know!
Why hard day?
September 26, 2008 at 9:38 am
DrowseyMonkey
I heard about this selling virginity thing, I mean first of all, that’s nothing new some cultures have done that thruout history … but in this situation I’m suspicious. I don’t believe a word of it.
September 26, 2008 at 3:22 pm
Scratch Bags
Huh? It was pretty new to me and I think she is a hypocrite who is just trying to make herself famous by using such silly tricks.
Did I sound highly opinionated ?
September 27, 2008 at 3:37 am
fracas
Agreed Scratchbags… agreed!
I don’t believe she’s even a virgin, this is all probably just for fame and money. You are right to say that a devout Catholic wouldn’t be doing this. If she is devout, she knows that she should wait for marriage to have sex. If she sees nothing with trying to “prove” her virginity by having her brother vouch for her “devoutness” then it’s not a big stretch to think she’s not even a virgin anyway.
All of that aside, it’s all stupid and prostitution. Just because she’s marketing it better than the gal on the street under the lamp post, doesn’t make it not selling sex for money.
FTR, I am Catholic. It bugs me when people haul it out to “prove” smething. AND… Padre Pio would *never* tell her this is ok.
BTW – Congrats on the Blog of the Day.
September 27, 2008 at 8:21 am
Scratch Bags
You know, initially I thought that whichever newspaper must have published it first, must have confirmed medically that she was a virgin.But on second thoughts, I think that she must have paid a moolah to one newspaper and since it’s a spicy news, everyone else must have published the news hence solving her motive. Also, she is discussing her virginity with her brother and using his statements to vouch for her, I don’t know how many sisters are comfortable discussing their virginity with their brothers. Also, as you say that a devout Catholic can’t have sex before marriage, this proves that she is doing all this for some sick business. People who make it big in their lives, go through patchy phases and are honest about their work, she doesn’t fit anywhere.
I thought of adding a disclaimer under this post that this is not meant to hurt anyone’s religious views but then I thought that until Raffella Fico herself doesn’t read this post, bloggers are matured enough to understand the point I am trying to put forward.
Ha! ‘Blog of the Day’ made me feel grand, I was gleeful the whole day. Thank you.:)